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The Submissive Next Door Podcast

Nov 3, 2023

Can vanilla and kinky people mix? What kind of people are drawn to kink and BDSM to begin with? And what does cyber security have to do with kink? In this episode, we cover all these topics and so much more! I am beyond excited to bring on the show someone I’ve admired for several years, the award-winning author and certified sex therapist, Dr. Stefani Goerlich! Her new book, With Sprinkles on Top, covers everything vanilla people and their kinky partners need to know to communicate, explore, and connect and she’s here to share her expertise to help others grow and thrive! We also take a surprising detour and discuss the interaction of cyber security and sex tech! You don’t want to miss this episode!

Links for this episode:

Stefani’s Instagram
New Book: With Sprinkles on Top: Everything Vanilla People and Their Kinky Partners Need to Know to Communicate, Explore, and Connect

Be sure to also check out her other books:


Additional Resources

Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance)

Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality

Site: Center for Positive Sexuality

Site: Sexual Health Alliance

Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University


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Additional Resources:

Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)

About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.

Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech



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